Salsa Dance Teacher Prowled by Female Students

The stories of people wishing to remain anonymous keep pouring in my mailbox. This time, a Salsa Dance instructor – having read some articles on Salsa instructors seducing their students – decided to write his personal “adventures” of two girls doing their very best to seduce him. The case of Alex Da Silva allegedly raping four of his students also made him come out with his own story. “I just want to put some things in perspective,” he said.

Warning

He wrote, “Dear Sederick, I am a Salsa dance school owner & instructor. I have the biggest Salsa dance school in my town, and I also hired other teachers to instruct Salsa at my school. I tend to be very amicable to all of my clients, male and female alike. I also try to dance with all of my female students at my parties having a smile on my face. I would like to warn other Salsa instructors and their girlfriends or wives about female students trying to seduce their teachers and not taking “no” for an answer. There are two girls doing their very best to make me go crazy.”

Female Student breaking up her Relationship for Salsa Teacher

I thought this was common knowledge in the international Salsa scene, but let us read what this anonymous Salsa instructor has to say. He wrote, “There is this one girl taking Salsa classes at my school together with her boyfriend. At one time, I was standing alone at the bar when she came to sit by my side. She said: 'I've seen how you're watching me when we're dancing together, and I feel a certain tension building between us. I can't shake off the notion that you have some deep feelings for me. I finally decided to come and ask you, because I think the feeling's mutual. I must confess that my current relationship is not going very well, and I'm seriously considering breaking up my relationship with him. I want to ask you for us to go out on a date and discuss our feelings for each other privately.' I didn't want to offend her, so I told her that I felt very flattered, but I am only interested in her as a friend. Since then I feel her gaze everywhere I turn when teaching the classes and at Salsa parties. I simply don't know what to do with her.”

This delicate situation is very difficult to solve. The worst outcome to the anonymous Salsa instructor telling her boyfriend is that it causes both of them to break up, leave the dance school whilst giving him a bad reputation in the process.

Aggressive Tactics

This is not the only girl giving this anonymous Salsa instructor a hard time. He continues, “I have another 'high class' and quite good looking female student who also fancies me a lot. She made the same kind of advances as the first girl, but this girl is more aggressive in her pursuits. She uttered words like 'Salsa is my whole life and you're a big chunk of it'. I also told her that I was not interested in her romantically. I even warned her that Salsa instructors are not supposed to have intimate relationships with their students.”

Our anonymous Salsa businessman is getting pretty desperate. “Like I said before: I dance with all of my students. I also continued to dance with her because it would seem kind of strange to ask everyone besides her to dance. After a while, she told me that I excited her too much when dancing together, and that I was doing it to 'torture' her. So, I stopped dancing with her. Now she accuses me of ignoring her on purpose. I know this because she is an avid Facebook user. She does not say my name, but I know it is me she is accusing in her many comments. She also follows me like a hawk at school. I think she is used to getting everything she wants from her parents, and that she has never had a guy refusing her. I am afraid that some of my students are starting to notice the 'scorned' behavior of these women towards me. I am afraid that it is a matter of time before one or both these girls start to tarnish my good reputation,” he said.

This is a clip of a girl dancing her own brand of Bachata to Aventura's “Obsession”.

They know he has a Girlfriend

He asks me for advice in his final sentence, “I have been seeing a girl for quite some time now, and I still do not have the courage to tell her about what is happening at the school with these girls. Strange thing is that everyone knows that I am in a steady relationship. What should I do?”, he asks.

Maybe you have some good advices for this desperate Salsa instructor. Feel free to comment and advice him on how he can solve this situation without hurting these girls feelings or loosing them as clients. You can also write your own experiences on this matter and email it to sederick@onlinesalsa.com. OnlineSalsa.com guarantees your anonimity.